On the first Sunday after Labor Day, we celebrate National Grandparents Day. This year the date falls on September 12. Like Mother's Day and Father's day we also have a whole day dedicated to our grandparents. Grandparents and children have a special connection that is proven to both make grandparents live longer, and also make children more emotionally resilient. Grandparents Day is an opportunity to treasure that connection and spend some quality family time together.
Grandparents Day is celebrated the first Sunday after Labor Day, which is September 13 this year.
In 1969, nine-year-old Russell Capper sent President Nixon a letter suggesting that a day should be set aside in order to celebrate grandparents. On June 12, 1969, he received a letter back from Rose Mary Woods — Personal Secretary to the President — reading, "Dear Russell, Thank you for your letter to President Nixon. Your suggestion regarding a Grandparent's Day is appreciated, but the President ordinarily issues proclamations designating periods for special observance only when a Congressional resolution authorizes him to do so. With best wishes, Sincerely, Rose Mary Woods Personal Secretary to the President."
Following this letter, Marian McQuade was recognized nationally by the U.S. Senate and by President Jimmy Carter as the founder of National Grandparents Day. McQuade wanted to educate the youth about the importance of seniors and the contributions they have made throughout history. She urged the youth to "adopt" a grandparent and learn more about their lives, challenges, and desires for the future.
In 1977, Senator Randolph, with the help of other senators, introduced a joint resolution to the senate requesting the president to "issue annually a proclamation designating the first Sunday of September after Labor Day of each year as 'National Grandparents' Day'." Congress passed the legislation, proclaiming the first Sunday after Labor Day as National Grandparent's Day. On August 3, 1978, Jimmy Carter signed the proclamation, and the day was finally celebrated the following year.
Her activism with seniors is what launches the initiative to start National Grandparents Day.
A Small Request
Nine-year-old Russell Capper writes a letter to the president, asking if he can create a Grandparents' Day.
Marian McQuade's biggest initiative is Adopt a Grandparent — not just for a day but for a lifetime.
Jimmy Carter officially makes National Grandparents Day a holiday.
|Australia||Grandparents Day||A day for those in Australia to honour their grandparents.||The last Sunday in October|
|Brazil||Grandparents Day or "Dia dos avós"||An annual celebration of grandparents in Brazil.||July 26|
|Singapore||Grandparents Day||A dedicated holiday in Singapore to celebrate grandparents. It's been a tradition since 1979.||The fourth Sunday in November|
|Mexico||Grandparents Day or "Día del Abuelo"||A chance for those in Mexico to celebrate their grandparents.||August 28|
Grandparents lavish their children and grandchildren with an endless supply of love, gifts, and candy which they always seem to have on them. Today the favor is returned as grandparents are honored and receive gratitude for their strength, kindness, nurturing, and wisdom.
Every family shares their own history and traditions so, naturally, ways to celebrate this day vary. Whether it is going through photo albums, asking grandma to bake your favorite treat, spending time with your grandparents at the park, fixing the car in the garage with grandpa, we're sure you'll find something to do together!
Unfortunately, some grandparents have no one to share the day with. Volunteering at an old-age home is a great way to give back and so are community group projects that help the elderly feel included and like they are a part of a family.
4.8 million – the number of pre-school children in American who were cared for by a grandparent in 2011.
23.7% – the percentage of grandparents who take care of children under the age of five.
58% – the percentage of grandparents who say they care for their grandchildren because they enjoy doing it.
53% – the percentage of grandparents who take care of their grandchildren so that their parents can work.
22% – the percentage of grandparents who take care of their grandchildren to pass on family values.
>70 million – the estimated number of grandparents residing in the United States.
38 – the age of the youngest grandparents.
60% – the percentage of grandparents who work part-time or full-time.
$52 billion – the amount grandparents spend on grandchildren in a year.
45% – the percentage of grandparents who are on social media.
Sometimes we forget just how important and special our grandparents are. They have a lot more free time on their hands than we do and we know that even a short visit would make them happy.
Family time is hard to come by nowadays but organizing a family dinner with your grandparents and your parents and siblings is a great way to spend time together. Plus we get to have some good old-fashioned home cooking!
Your grandma might like to paint or your grandpa might love to do puzzles on Sundays. A bit of company would brighten their day and you'll probably have more fun than you thought you would.
The official song for National Grandparents Day is "A Song for Grandma and Grandpa" by Johnny Prill.
The official flower is the "forget-me-not" flower.
Even though it was signed in as a national holiday it is celebrated more as an observance than a public holiday.
People are honoring their grandparents with cards, it's the least we can do.
There are many days you'd want to spend with your grandparents but National Grandparents day was on average the highest day for nursing home visits.
Our Grandparents love us. They can be stubborn and opinionated but in the end they always want what's best for us.
Our grandparents have seen all kinds of things and lived a lot, through all that living it's not surprising that they learned a thing or two. They have so much to pass down and we should take some time to listen.
Let's be real, if it wasn't for them we wouldn't be here. They raised our parents and they made time to spoil us when we were little, it's only fair we return the favor now.
Summer is closing fast, and before you know it, fall will be in full swing. It's not too early to wrap up home improvement projects and start preparing our homes for the cold weather that lies ahead. Our real estate agents often recommend preparing our homes for winter in September and early October while temperatures are still mild. However, remembering to take care of everything can be challenging, especially for first-time homeowners, so we put together a short checklist to help you:
The No. 1 tip for first-time homebuyers that we can offer is to be sure you're ready. The average mortgage loan term is 15 – 30 years. Although you don't need to stay in your home for that amount of time, buying a home is still a major commitment. Be 100% sure that you're ready for homeownership before you take on a mortgage.
Start by asking yourself the following questions:
If the answer to any of these questions is "no," you may want to hold off for now. Keep saving. Keep researching.
Consider whether you have any events on the horizon that could affect your location, income or expenses. If so, these are other reasons to pump the brakes.
It can be tempting to jump right into hunting for the perfect house, particularly if this is your first time. It's a really good idea to get a mortgage preapproval before you begin comparing properties.
If you've heard of a prequalification, it's important to know how it differs from a preapproval. Let's review that difference now.
Prequalification letter: A prequalification is an estimate of the amount of home loan you can get. It's based on an informal evaluation of your income and other information.
Preapproval letter: A mortgage preapproval is a document from a lender that tells you exactly how much loan money you can get. It's based on your financial information, such as W-2s, bank statements, and your credit score.
Some of the benefits of getting preapproved include:
You know exactly what you can afford: You and your real estate agent know what you can afford once you have a preapproval letter in hand. This will help you shop within your budget.
You can make a stronger offer: Sellers need to know that the buyer they choose can afford their home. A preapproval shows a seller that you have the money needed to purchase the home.
You'll experience fewer surprises: When you're preapproved, you're less likely to run into last-minute surprises or delays with your lender.
The bottom line? Get a preapproval before you start shopping for a home. Read on to learn why a preapproval may not reflect the final loan offer.
Now is not the time to open a new line of credit. When you apply for mortgage preapproval, lenders will pull your credit report. They'll do it again before you close on the house and its corresponding mortgage.
If they find that you've taken out another loan or line of credit, that your credit balance has increased or that you've started to make late payments, it could risk your final approval.
Be sure to keep paying your bills on time. Don't attempt to influence your credit rating for better or worse or begin any risky spending. Lenders want to see that your behavior patterns are consistent and can be relied upon for future payments.
One of the Federal Housing Administration's (FHA) most important priorities is helping home buyers with the purchase of their first home. If you qualify as a first-time homebuyer, you may have access to state programs, tax breaks, and an FHA loan.
According to the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) website, a first-time homebuyer is anyone who meets the following criteria:
If you qualify as a first-time homebuyer, you can benefit from a number of assistance programs, including down payment assistance loans and grants.
We'll get into the minimum requirements below, but the upside of saving at least 20% for a down payment is that you can avoid mortgage insurance on conventional loans.
Did you know that there are multiple types of mortgage loans? The type of loan you choose will determine your down payment amount, what type of home you can buy and more. Here are some of the more familiar types:
Conventional loans: Conventional loans are the most common type of home loans. You can purchase a home with as little as 3% down.
FHA loans: An FHA loan can allow you to buy a home with less strict financial and credit score requirements. You can get an FHA loan with a 3.5% down payment and a credit score as low as 580.
USDA loans: USDA loans are for people who want to buy a home in a qualified rural or suburban area. You can get a USDA loan with 0% down, subject to household income restrictions. Rocket Mortgage® doesn't offer USDA loans at this time.
VA loans: VA loans are exclusively for veterans and members of the armed forces and National Guard and qualified spouses. You can buy a home with 0% down if you qualify for a VA loan.
Each type of loan has its own qualification standards that you must meet. For example, VA loans require you to meet military service requirements. Make sure you meet these standards before you apply.
Once you have a goal in mind, you can begin to set up automatic payments to your savings account, making it easier to predict when you can make your move.
Don't assume that your down payment is the only thing you need to close on your mortgage loan. You'll also need to cover closing costs before you take control of your property.
Closing costs are expenses that go to your lender in exchange for arranging certain loan services. Some common closing costs you might see include:
You'll see your exact closing costs on a document called a Closing Disclosure. Generally, you can expect to pay 2% – 5% of your total loan cost in closing costs.
As a first-time buyer, you may qualify for government-backed grants or loans that assist with closing costs. Additionally, it's not uncommon to ask the seller to help cover closing costs. Seller concessions could be a flat percentage of the total closing costs or cover specific fees, like appraisal or attorney fees.
Your reason for buying a home will be your north star for making decisions about your purchase. If your goal is to dip your toe into real estate investment, a duplex may be the perfect option for you.
If you've decided to move closer to older parents or a support system as you start your own family, consider a condo or townhouse that will require less upkeep.
Once you've decided on the type of home that's right for you, you can begin to prioritize which features you want in your home based on your needs.
For example, you might focus on finding a home with extra bedrooms if you plan to have children or need a home office. If fur babies are the light of your life, a big yard or a location near plenty of green spaces may be nonnegotiable.
Sit down and create a list of qualities you want and need in your new home. This will help you shop for homes more effectively and compare properties with less stress.
Work with a real estate agent or REALTOR® to find the perfect property. Agents and REALTORS® are local professionals who are experts in the home buying process and your local market.
A real estate professional can help by:
Remember, only a buyer's agent will work on your behalf. Don't rely on the seller's agent to represent your best interests. Always choose a qualified REALTOR® or real estate agent to help you buy a home.
You should never submit an offer on a home unless you're 100% committed to the purchase – or you could risk losing your earnest money deposit, also known as a "good faith deposit." Giving this money signals to the owner that you're serious about the offer.
The deposit is typically equal to 1% – 3% of your total home loan value and goes toward your down payment. If you back out of the sale for a reason not listed in your offer letter, you'll lose your earnest money deposit.
You need to hire a professional inspector before you get a home. An inspection is different from the appraisal required by your lender. Here's how.
The appraisal: During an appraisal, your appraiser only gives you and your lender a rough idea of how much your home is worth based on comparable properties (comps).
The inspection: During an inspection, the inspector tells you about specific problems with the home. You can use the results of your inspection to learn more about your home and request concessions from your seller.
An earnest money deposit letter often includes a home inspection contingency, which would allow you to invalidate an offer and not lose your deposit in the instance of extensive repairs.
It's likely that your reason for purchasing a home is driven by emotion. You might want to feel secure, have the freedom to express yourself through your home, or have a vision for your desired lifestyle. Many first-time homebuyers get too invested in a home only to find out they can't get the loan for it or there are some major issues.
Don't go over your budget for a home, even if it seems perfect for you, and be sure you budget in enough money for repairs or renovations. The right home is out there for you, so keep searching until you find a home that fits your budget and your list of must-haves.
Once you get moving on a home, don't forget about the paperwork. Yes, cloud-based storage is the obvious choice for keeping tabs on documents – but you should keep a physical copy of your mortgage statements, deed, Closing Disclosure, and other documents in a locked, fireproof file cabinet.
Let anyone else named on your loan know where the documents are and how to access them in the event of an emergency.
Nobody is born with the manual for smart homeownership etched on their brain. Consider searching for online real estate courses for first-time home buyers and get started on your path to expertise.
Not sure where to start? Zing University is a free online course from the mortgage experts at Quicken Loans® that offers tons of information for first-time homebuyers, including:
Investing in homeownership education can help you avoid making costly mistakes, prioritize smart investments that offer reliable ROIs, and build sweat equity in your first home.
Buying a home for the first time doesn't have to be overwhelming. Wherever you land, it's you and your loved ones who bring a home to life. Maintain your financial health to get there, so your quality of life increases with the purchase, rather than decreases.
If you're a first-time homebuyer, explore your options with the experts at Rocket Mortgage®. We're here to help you every step of the way!